Blogging (Mom) Girl

We are always in a hurry.    Consuming content is our main  activity   throughout  the day in the digital age.       Consuming food comes only next to it.   This is where we  suffer.         Our body suffers malnutrition.   and the brain, toxic.       but life is a journey and journey itself is home, where I rest.  

 I have a new short term intensity. A work, that I am putting immense amount of time on it. I don't know for what I am concentrating on, it is sucking my heart juice that my heart literaly is stopping. from time to time. All i do is typing from time to time.  Long-term consistency triumps short-term intensity. I know but I don't want to know about it. 

  The real draw back we failed to notice during automating our life in the name of increasing productivity is that we use these on two modes: stimulus and reaction - through screens.   These are extremely limited resources to fire up those physical movement ignitions, a brain needs for its proper well-being.    Therefore, when you automate your life- or enhance your productivity by means of digital apps, you are forgetting to involve your brains over focus on screen involvement and reduced levels of other than screen involvement- like a physical workout.   

 I don't understant waht that mean,s its simple thing you do for the sake of doing, for the sake of time being. this is just another thing like that. I have a lot of ideas I don't now about list 1. nepolian 2. chernobil 3. and a lot. i was inspired by santhose george kulangara. so this is going to be about him and my main site is going to get most of the neat contents. so this is one of those content. SANTOSH .  ==============================================

Incidence:  I just realized how a built-up habit of mine- drinking water - got disrupted during one of those bad days. By default, I tried to resolve them by taking a break from all my daily routines.    Life needs structure. The structure that formed during our childhood is not much complicated to us. When people feel like they don't have a good structure in life, some dare to form them from scratch. They will hopefully try, trusting in the powerful neuroplasticity of human brain.    I also have such structures that I built up as a grownup and felt like it gave me another beautiful life to start with. And ever since it has worked, I am super excited for habits that can transform me.    But we all know that our life has a way of throwing down thunderstorms sometimes.    The darkness of those days varies with life experiences.   People deal with these in different ways, but not the proper way, most of the time. Everybody will try to ...

When so much of life's chores are automated, it is real that at  some point  we will forget to live in the moment.    Not all are aware of this condition. But it might be true that we will be starving from that one point we should have fixed a long time ago. May be its brushing teeth, or skipping morning coffee, but something like that present internally is going to affect our  well-being  until it is fixed.   So,   What is that point of fixation you need the most, internally screaming  inside you , may be, for a long time???  

  In order to make your life good, you have to take some extra measures. Otherwise, it will go in a non-directed flow, which is not bad, as long as you feel good.  Unfortunately, we all feel discomfort with our routines at some point. There’s natural boredom of life. It needs to be experienced.    No matter how much you plan, it won’t stay consistent the way we want it to be. It will always annoy us.   But hope is infinite. We try different ways.   Time management  How you manage time or what you choose to reject in the current time matters the most. If it aligns with your goals the most, then you gotta do that first. No reasons further.  For consistency, we need a rectifying system. There’s no system man made that is ultimately perfect. Everything, even God-made things need maintenance and evolution.   The tracking  A tracking system is needed, first of all, to manage commitment and strategies towards the goals.  Thi...

 It looks like I haven't posted the other week.  I have been contemplating about personal evolution and how a person is valued even in one's worst condition. I came across this tweet which look so beautiful so I am forwarding it here!  Here are the stages of ripening that a blackberry goes through. We are like this too. Be patient with yourself. Shower yourself with the deepest grace you’d show someone you truly care about. Do the same for each person you encounter. We are all in this journey together. pic.twitter.com/J7UkgVDTwE — omid safi (@ostadjaan) August 8, 2021

You are running from your responsibilities, Saying that you have much bigger ones.  You are fighting for your Rights, Saying that you have to survive and thrive.  You are struggling to Love, Saying that you have never been loved. You are working Hard, Saying that it should be a norm. You are Striking out your life's lists, Saying that it weighed you down. You are progressing, towards betterment But You are running... Out of Life. 

Flee from the site of that person. That person is making you feel bad. That person has numbed you many times. Even then, you are submitting yourself to what? Some kind of small talk? Or obedience? To whom? What about the peace of your life? Adjustments are fuel to the pain. LOVE though. And so, FLEE !  

This is the last time he came up here and asked for a favour. But he got nothing. We were super busy. He started singing songs for his own entertainment. In the mean time, they all worked and became our entertainment too. He was selfless. 

Tell me the story you need to tell me.  Lemme evaluate you with it.   I think I have done it. once in my life.  It was because I didn't know to express what was in my mind completely.  I feared to lose the person I lied to.  The time limit pushed me to do it.  -I Lied by omission

 Be motivated.   It’s a saying that whatever you do is imperfect, in your inner mind. You may or may not choose to do it. But it is only good if you are likely to do something.  From where does these inner voices come from? 

Faults tend to get forgotten, if it is commited by me. But remembered, if it was done to me. The forgeting is bliss because one can't stand one's own fault, if it is exposed in its full gravity. God has allowed this to humans The exposing is heart wrenching. a heart will even fail to beat forward on such a revelation, because we remeber ourselves more less sinful than we actually are.

You need to reinvent your life, just for the sake of it, You need to make it care free. But you are inside a bubble of your comfort zone and you can't achieve anything from there. I will give you a bubble pusher, if you are willing to accept it.

  There are lil things I leave as breadcrumbs in notes. It's for me to come back and refer the real stuffs.  Real bread. This has been the most effective style of learning. First you make out a big picture, then dive into the details. -Like the saying  eating a frog.  You evaluate parts, and asses its difficulty and complexity, and keep it aside. Even if you return after long time, You should be able to do a good work!

Ever since we have recognized our irrevocable technological migration towards the mobile screens, new-gen priests have been advising us about digital fasting, when it comes to a Lenten season.  In this lent, nearly everyone, even children can run a thought on digital fasting. Because everyone knows that they cannot pass a day without internet. Where we are, is in a cold feet- whether to do physical fasting or digital fasting!  It is easier for some to restrain from food, rather than internet, and vice versa. And also, there are people who cannot live a second without both!  So, tell me, what kind of fasting is ideal for this generation during lent?  Has the relevance of physical fasting gone completely?  No. It is intrinsically linked to everyone of human beings. If not food, may be some other physical indulgences. Like sleeping deep into your bed's wrapper.  It is too personal to find out the right abstinance for one. You have a body. And you are bas...

  It is the calmness right after a satisfactory sleep.  Mind might be in a semi-conscious state. At this time, you know how to steer your life to reach the destiny. You can spend it well, and also,  spare it easily. This small window of time is powerful. You know you will have to pay a high price if you mess with this state of mind. Because this is a blessing. It's there each day, waiting for you.  It's waiting for you to build something out of it. Build wisely. Build a tower of energy with it. Build peace. And therefore, courage! To Do :- Determine a morning bliss short time routine instead of that me time thing allowed crudely into the schedule. Let there be an alternate routine for smoother days too. 

I am kinda doing something unimaginable.  I am a mother. Aspiring for many things.  And I am uttering that out every single day! For who? For those who live with me. They hear my rants all the time. This I feel stupid! Who knows about who? NO one cares, But still cares, the other way, about themselves.  This is too intense! They will be out there stuck around a herd of people. 

 Heard about heaven?      I have been watching heaven and near-death experiences lately. Interestingly, all of them have something in common, despite of the vagueness, except for the spectator. For the person who underwent all of that experiences, the picture was surreal, having difficulty to explain with this world’s words and visions. All we are left with, is, the feeling. How they felt, was fulfilling, and beautiful.            Commonality among these testimonials are as follows:  Meeting Loved ones especially, their closest relatives, such as grandparents.   Endless beauty of environment or nature in heaven. People thought that was more real than the real world they were born in.   Some of those people saw the Prince of peace while some others had peace of mind.   They said, that heaven was overflowing with life, death as we know was completely absent. Which also means, people like grandpa...